How To Fascinate Women - Unclear Indications And Flirting
When we are referring to the topic of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do females flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was interesting and significant enough to share.
First, women have different personalities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of behavior is a little unstable. They are testing the water, but they don't actually want to leap in.
The best way to manage this personality type is when you find it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she desires, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will get close to you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will often run off.
Problem is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities are likely to hang out together. So at times you can get the feeling that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of persons who are like that. So if you generally think ALL women are one way, alter your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will discover different personality types and probably one that is more compatible with you.
Now having said that, let's look at it from a different perspective. Women in general love flirting for flirting's sake more than gents do. Men will flirt just because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a response, to check if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a person they are only interested in being friends with.
One approach to get better control of these situations is to observe all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.
When a woman likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you through all of the communications modes. When she is only playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.